Imagine you are in marshland. There is a boggy area and dry, high hummocks around you. Jumping from hummock to hummock you can reach a dry and blossoming ground easily and quickly. But if you decide to stay on a fenny place, your legs will stick and it will be very difficult to move to a dry and blossoming ground. Even you’ll not be able to reach it.
Actually, there is no need to imagine something, because it is possible, that you feel underfoot firm ground in the life or the difficulties caused by situations which create obstacles to you and do not allow you to move on the happy life side. Probably you feel firm ground in the life, because near you there is no a shoulder of the worthy, clever and respectable person.
People that surrounds you, influence you, and they can provide your quickly move in a direction to the happy side of a life or can help you to stick in adverse vital circumstances. It is very important to define, who is good for you.
The person can have credentials, invaluable merits, general respect and other factors causing your trust to him, but his advice can carry only troubles personally to you. And ordinary person can become as compass to you, that will specify the fastest and shortest way to the happy life side.
It is very important to distinguish people and how they influence on your life. For example, if you surround yourself with people who by virtue of the nature will help you to live, your life will bring you only pleasures. Art to live in a style of your dream in many respects is connected to ability to choose those people, who surround you.
Well-being and peace of mind, a comfortable way to the happy life side, the deserved gifts of fortune in many respects are connected to the true unions. Not everybody sincerely promote your success in life. Therefore it is very important to distinguish people, to learn to be united with those who wants and who can help you to move to the happy side of life and those who consciously or unconsciously interfere your movement.
If you learn to define people who is ready and sincerely wants to help you, thus you will find a guarantee, that you or your children will study in prestigious university. You will be sure in the successful career. You can feel, what it is not to hasten anywhere. You can make only those actions, which you like.
If to don’t learn to define, you won’t live comfortably and cozy. Hardly you will have good work, good family and good house.
Hardly your love affair can last all life. Hardly you can forget about your troubles and to indulge yourself.
Every person have freedom in choosing.
If you decide to learn to define people who promote your movement to the happy side of a life, your life will become as beautiful and kind film. If not to learn to define people, who promote your movement, nobody can guarantee, that you will be good and that your heart in the near future will not tell you, that it is tired.
How to define people, who promote your movement to the happy side of a life, I wrote in the second part of this book “Steps to gain the treasures of the life” in Chapter 11 “The Past meets with the Present” and Chapter 12 “How to collect all the best of a life”